When I sit giving abstract inapplicable advice to victims of situations that I haven't been through or am at present not going through, I never ever take a wild guess that the penny is coming right up into my palm from the fountain, only a few months later maybe.

And even if I have experienced the situation I am advising about, how can I advice someone on it, because I can never be that person, I am only best at being me. And that person is the only person who can best crack being him/her self.

But comparison, experience and experimentation has always been the bold-lettered process in the books, hence, we never forget to say 'told you so' or 'try this out'.

I truly wish, hope, pray, it works out like that. I wish advises are easy to take and follow, I wish advises bear desired results, I wish all people can be used as baits or examples for all. 

Because if there is any truth in similarity, only then can advise, as a method of success, succeed.